A Christ-Centered Marriage

By Diane Kennedy

We live in a world where the majority of relationships, including marriages are failing, producing a profound level of hopelessness in young people. So what answers for men and women does the world supply for the crumbling pieces of society? Is there a plan to restore right and good relationships? A plan to restore marriage so that it works "until death do us part" as it did for our grandmothers?

The culture screams: do what feels good, do what you want! Don't let anyone hold you back from indulging your flesh!

This utter foolishness will continue to break down relationships between men and women. 

A Christ-centered marriage offers a solid foundation built on faith, trust, and the unwavering love of God. Not built on feelings of self gratification and lust. 

By placing Christ at the center of their union, you can discover a profound purpose that goes beyond your individual selves and embrace God's calling.

Marriage is a sacred bond that brings two individuals together on a journey of love, companionship, and growth. 

A Christ-centered marriage begins with a shared belief and commitment to follow Christ. It involves cultivating a deep spiritual connection as husband and wife, allowing faith in God to guide decisions, actions, and interactions. By prioritizing your relationships with God as a couple, you will be able to draw strength from His teachings, and seek His wisdom and guidance in times of joy and adversity.

At the heart of a Christ-centered marriage is love and sacrifice. Following the example of Jesus, we are called to selflessly serve and support one another. It means putting aside personal desires and ego, and embracing a sacrificial love that seeks the well-being and happiness of the spouse. Through acts of kindness, forgiveness, and understanding, we can nurture a loving and compassionate bond that reflects the love of Christ.

A Christ-centered marriage is not static; it is a journey of growth and transformation. We should continuously seek personal and spiritual growth, both individually and as a couple. This growth involves studying God's Word together, praying together, and participating in church community events that foster fellowship and spiritual nourishment. This will result in personal development while deepening our connection with each other and with God.

Life is filled with challenges, and no marriage is exempt from trials and difficulties. However, in a Christ-centered marriage, we are anchored by the unwavering faith that God is present in our lives. We can find solace in prayer, seek guidance through Scripture, and draw strength from our shared spiritual foundation. Together, we can face life's storms with resilience, perseverance, and the assurance that God's love and grace will sustain us through even the toughest times.

A Christ-centered marriage can be a remarkable journey of love, faith, and purpose. By anchoring our relationship in Christ, we can find the strength and guidance needed to navigate life's challenges. It will not always be fun, but it will produce joy.

Are you ready for a lifelong commitment to selflessness, growth, and shared spiritual connection? Or do you want a shallow commitment to room together until we get tired of each other when it isn't "fun" anymore. If couples strive to keep Christ at the center of their marriage, they unlock a profound purpose that transcends their own happiness and becomes a testament to God's love and grace.